Give yourself compassion and patience. Stop beating yourself up for things you can’t control.
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Mig.. men tyndere?
Halløj med jer.
Jeg havde det ikke super skønt med min krop, da jeg skrev det her. Det tror jeg måske, næsten jeg er ovre nu og jeg håber at i passer på jer selv. I må love mig, at i gør hvad i kan for at indse hvor meget i er værd. Vi må lære at se bort fra de små ting, som samfundet lærer os at fokusere på. De betyder ikke noget for hvem vi virkelig er.
Jeg ønsker for jer alle, at i må indse alt det gode i har at byde på❤
What I did to trick myself into being happier
- Whenever I criticised or complained about something, even in my mind, I made myself think of at least one good thing too
- I started telling people the nice things I thought about them
- I started saying “I love you” to the people I loved: my parents, my siblings, my best friends. This one is harder but very rewarding.
- I replaced “This is stupid” by “This is silly”
- Changed my depreciating humour to self-aggrandising humour (from “I’m trash” to “I’m a goddess”)
- Stop refusing compliments on my looks or my talent. Saying “thanks!!” is harder than defusing a compliment, but that’s what the person complimenting you wants to hear.
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What advice would you give women struggling to find their self-worth?
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Very important.
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everything i’ve been through in life was worth it for bringing me to you
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i’m concerned about boys with mental illnesses and eating disorders and abusive relationships and sexual assault survivor stories and self-harming tendencies who never get the attention or care or help they need because all of those things “don’t happen to men” or because “all men are horrible monsters” and i just wanna say if you’re a boy and you’re struggling with something hard, your gender doesn’t diminish or dismiss your struggles or make them any less significant or difficult and i love you and i’m here for you
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